“We need the kindness of God desperately in this troubled world. Christ-followers, having known the forgiveness and grace of God toward us in our brokenness, need to be the kindest people.” Bonnie Sala

Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience. (Colossians 3:12)



Be kind and rewind. Did you ever see that phrase on the label of an old VHS videotape cassette? It was a request for a simple act, asking the viewer to show kindness by rewinding the tape after watching a movie so that the next person wouldn’t have to do so. Simply think of the next guy, was the idea.

Perhaps you’ve heard of the practice of performing “random acts of kindness.” Random Acts of Kindness Day evolved from a 1982 event in a Sausalito, California, restaurant when Anne Herbert scrawled the words “practice random acts of kindness and senseless acts of beauty” on a placemat. Since then people have kindly paid the bills of others in line behind them at coffee shops and grocery stores or have simply held doors open, smiled and said “Thank you”.

But why do we think of treating a stranger kindly as a senseless act? Perhaps because what makes sense to us is to act in ways that benefit us, doing only what is best for us. In and of ourselves, we’re not likely to think of “the next guy.”




The Bible doesn’t treat kindness to others as senseless, nor does it encourage us to be random in our demonstration of it. “A man who is kind benefits himself, but a cruel man hurts himself,” the Proverbs teach (Proverbs 11:17). Kindness and love are to go hand-in-hand, says the great chapter on love (1 Corinthians 13). In fact, kindness is one of the evidences that God’s Spirit is living inside a person. Kindness is called one of the “fruits of the Spirit” (Galatians 5:22), the marks of a life that has been transformed by a true relationship with God.

Jesus’ own words about showing kindness to others are anything but light and fluffy: “But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil.” (Luke 6:35) Jesus calls for those who follow him to follow God’s example by showing kindness to those who aren’t going to say thank you, those who don’t deserve it. Listen to the verse again, “… he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil.”




My tendency is to show kindness to those who will reciprocate—people I like, who think like me and share my values. I want evil people to receive judgment, not kindness. The problem is that I can’t show kindness to someone who has done evil to me without forgiving them. Kindness and bitterness can’t hold hands.

That’s what the father of two young children had in mind when he made his kids memorize a verse from the Bible which says, “Be kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God, for Christ’s sake, forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:32) When his son and daughter were fighting away, he would bring them together, make them hold hands and look into each other’s eyes, then recite this verse in unison to one another. Nothing could stop squabbling faster than knowing that this is how family conflict was going to be solved. It was horrible to have to do and definitely stopped the fighting. I know—because I was one of those kids!

We need the undeserved kindness of God desperately in this troubled world. Christ-followers, having known the forgiveness and grace of God toward us in our brokenness, need to be the kindest people.  Let’s do something kind for one another today, but let’s make it purposeful, not random. Let our kindness be senseless, in that we choose to show kindness to someone who perhaps has wronged us, or doesn’t deserve it.

Give the Gift of Undeserved Kindness first published at Guidelines on July 24, 2020. Published with permission.

Questions For Reflection

1. Who can you bless with undeserved kindness today?

2. What is one act of intentional kindness you would love to receive? Who could you bless with that very same act of kindness?

3. Interested in creative ways to show kindness to others? Check out our Intentional Kindness page, our downloadable Kindness Guide, Bite-Sized Kindness for Kids Guide, and Service in a Box – Kindness for lots of great ideas! 

Bonnie Sala

Bonnie Sala

It is Bonnie Sala’s joy to lead Guidelines in its second generation of transforming lives with the message of Jesus. Bonnie is passionate about sharing Guidelines devotionals around the world with those who are unreached, new to Christianity or living with persecution. An enthusiastic cultivator of partnership, she has led the substantial expansion of Guidelines international impact.

Bonnie writes for and guest-hosts “Guidelines for Living” and is an author and international speaker. Prior to her work with Guidelines, Bonnie used her broadcast journalism and business degrees in financial tech marketing. She has two adult sons and enjoys traveling anywhere with her husband, Kevin Condrin.

Bite-Sized Kindness

Jesus is the best at being kind. And He loves it when we're kind. How could you share the kindness of Jesus today? How does it make you feel to be kind? How does it make those around you feel when you are kind?

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