Parenting with Chronic Illness: Raising Children When You're Sick

Parenting with Chronic Illness

Raising Children When You’re Sick

Parenting with chronic illness brings countless challenges, but there is abounding peace and overflowing grace surrounding every limitation as we learn to lean on Jesus step by step.

More than half of people live with chronic illness.
1 in 5 adults lives with chronic illness

About Parenting

Parents want to be active, caring for, protecting, teaching, and training their children. Parenting with chronic illness, mental illness, chronic pain, and/or disability can be a real challenge. Often parents feel guilty, weary, anxious, depressed, lonely, and sad.

More than 60% of the world’s population lives with one or more chronic illnesses.

Reportedly about 20% of the population lives with mental illness.

All this is for your benefit, so that the grace that is reaching more and more people may cause thanksgiving to overflow to the glory of God.
2 Corinthians 4:15-16 NIV

PARENTING WHEN YOU ARE CHRONICALLY ILL

Find hope, encouragement, and practical resources for your unique parenting journey. The daily trials of parenthood are magnified when we are chronically ill, but there is also untold grace and an incredible future planned for us and for our children. Discover refreshment for your soul and heart-touching stories for your heart as you parent with chronic illness.

 

CHRONIC PARENTING

Parenting with chronic illness can feel like trying to climb a mountain while carrying a mountain. Despite the many challenges, God will never leave our sides. Our children were given specifically to us, and we were given specifically to them.

 

The unique circumstances of parenting with chronic illness can leave us feeling exhausted and overwhelmed.

 

From diapers, bottles, and play dates to guiding a wayward teen, parenting is a complex and beautiful privilege. To be entrusted with the heart and soul of another human being is a gift from God, but parenting is far from easy, regardless of our circumstances. It humbles and challenges us in ways we never thought possible, pulling our emotions in vastly different directions, while draining our physical and mental energy.

What happens when we can’t change the diapers or prepare the meals or drive our kids to school?

 

Perhaps pregnancy and birth flared an underlying illness and we are now powerless to care for our little ones. Maybe we’re afraid to open our eyes each morning because just the thoughts of the days’ tasks are overwhelming and leave us feeling hopeless.

 

How do we intentionally shape the hearts of our children when we can’t even get out of bed?

 

Where do we turn when our little ones need our loving guidance, but we’re in the hospital?

 

How do we get our children, fed, bathed, clothed, and their emotional tanks filled up when we are not even able to meet own needs?

 

Guilt and shame can also creep in as we see what other parents do with their children, but no matter how we feel, we are not alone.

So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
Isaiah 41:10 NIV

Welcome to a community of fellow travelers on this parenting journey. Come and find rest for your soul and hope that is rooted in the truth of God’s Word.

 

RAISING CHILDREN WHEN YOU’RE SICK

While every parent and child are different, Chronic Joy believes Christ is the solution to our struggles and is the healing for our pain. We don’t have all the answers, but we can encourage one another to pursue Christ with our whole hearts, and to trust Him with the tender souls of our children.

 

We are exactly who God made us to be, wonderfully made and created in love to parent our children. God will show us how, lighting each step along the way.

Here you will find:

HOW TO BE A GODLY PARENT WITH CHRONIC ILLNESS

In order to become godly parents, we must first submit and commit to a personal relationship with our Heavenly Father through Jesus Christ.

 

If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.
Romans 10:9 NIV

 

Jesus loves us enough to save us through His death and resurrection, and therefore we can love one another, including our children, no matter the circumstances.

With the unconditional love of the Father in our hearts, we can pour into our children the love, joy, and salvation found in Jesus, guiding them on the path to life.

Being a godly parent isn’t determined by how much we can give our children or from the skills we have. It grows from a place of surrender and dependence on God, who loves our children even more than we do.

 

With Christ, whatever we are able to do—whether big or small—is sufficient.

 

’My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.
2 Corinthians 12:9 NIV

 

PARENTING WITH CHRONIC ILLNESS • FOUR KEYS

 

1. Understand Your Limitations – With chronic illness comes limits, both physical and mental. Give yourself grace and be encouraged that no matter what roadblocks you face, you will never face them alone.

2. Embrace Community – Find a community to plug into for practical support. This can include family, friends, neighbors, church members, or support groups.

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  • Practice Proactive Parenting – Love covers all! Our gracious God can take even the tiniest spark of hope and initiative to cultivate character and purpose in our children’s hearts. God asks for a willing spirit, then asks to let Him do the rest.   

3. Prayer – Lift everything up to Christ, including the heartbreaks and the celebrations, the questions and the worries. Keep a prayer journal or find a prayer partner to help boost your prayer life. Prayer is as unique as snowflakes with untold ways to converse with our Savior.

 

OUR CHILDREN NEED JESUS

 

Our children are a gift from God and He gave them specifically to us to love, nurture, and protect. While chronic illness may rob us of some of the everyday joys of parenting, with God’s help, we can give our children the one thing they truly need: Jesus.

There is only one secure foundation: a genuine, deep relationship with Jesus Christ, which will carry you through any and all turmoil. No matter what storms are raging all around, you’ll stand firm if you stand on His love. Charles Stanley

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Chronic illness is hard. Often finding and/or being a part of a community as a parent with chronic illness can be even more challenging.

 

You’re invited to the Prayer Pond, your safe harbor, where you can share your prayer requests, updates, and shouts of praise. Whether a request, praise, lament, suffering, loss, hope, grief, or joy, each prayer ripples far beyond this day and the boundaries of our world.
 
How often we hear, “Prayer is the least I can do,” when in reality, prayer is the most we can do. 

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