Though I Sit In Darkness

CJMicah78Keeping Faith in the Midst of Depression

I stand with the rest of the congregation for a familiar hymn. My heart is sad and parched. Mouthing the words takes a Herculean effort. I feel out of place in the midst of so many people with smiles on their faces and praise on their lips. I can’t remember the last time I felt buoyant in spirit or put my heart into worship. Guilt badgers me, for I’m aware that joy is a fruit of the Holy Spirit.


I’m trying to muster enough resolve to keep a lunch appointment with a student and to teach an afternoon class at the university. I hope the student won’t show. The idea of listening to and feigning interest in another person creates pressure that I resent. There’s a high humidity in my heart that smothers motivation and saps energy for the daily routine.


I sit in my recliner, clutching a second handful of tear-soaked tissues. In stark contrast to the afternoon sun, my spirit is pitch-black. “Where are You when I need You?” I cry aloud to God as despair envelops me. “Don’t You care enough to help?”


The pain won’t ease up.

These vignettes from the past year depict my ongoing struggle with depression. I’m either too numb to feel anything, or the pendulum swings to the opposite extreme and I collapse in a torrent of tears. The voice of despair insists that the darkness is inevitable, that the pain will never subside. The voice of faith offers a rebuttal, pointing me to God and asserting that hope will have the last word. Hope can triumph over despondency.

I believe that the gospel is hopeful, that God is good, that any form of adversity can serve a redemptive purpose. I identify with the psalmist who — within a single verse —  acknowledged despondency and told himself to focus on God as an object of trust: “Why are you downcast, O my soul? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God” (Psalm 42:5).

I can’t claim victory over the nemesis of depression. Yet I can share how I contend with it and avoid yielding to hopelessness. I can tell you what I’m learning about keeping faith when the feeling is gone.

Godly and Depressed

A myth persists among some Christians that if a person is right with the Lord, despondency won’t descend on him. A member of my church, aware of my depression, inquired about my devotional life. I assured her that days in which I’ve had unremitting emotional pain began with Bible study, fervent prayer, and confession of known sins. She walked away, apparently unconvinced.

I’ve learned that there is no direct correlation between the onset of depression and the quality of my relationship with the Lord. I’m not suggesting that time alone with God and His Word isn’t crucial in the fight against despondency. I am saying that neglect of spiritual disciplines isn’t a satisfactory explanation for the onset of my emotional lows. I can be in the vise grip of depression when I’m in close fellowship with the Lord, and I can be lighthearted when I’m not so close to Him.

More than once, King David experienced life-sapping melancholy that was apparently not the result of sin or disobedience. According to Psalm 13:1–2, David felt sorrow in his heart and thought that God had abandoned him. On a different occasion, David asked the Lord to be responsive to his tears and expressed a desire to smile again (Psalm 39:12–13). The same man whom the Scriptures call a “man after God’s own heart,” who encouraged others to “taste and see that the Lord is good,” experienced bouts of discouragement that we would likely call depression today.

Medical experts agree that recurring depression, especially when it cannot be linked to a personal setback or external event, has a biological basis. That’s why medical intervention may be needed. Since 1990, I’ve been under a physician’s care. Through early 2002, prescription medications boosted my mental health and kept the depression in check.

Since then, however, the effectiveness of medicines has waned, and I’ve been depressed more often than not. I’m discovering that even depression that has a physical cause must be fought with spiritual weapons, as well as with medications.

Promises, Promises

My first weapon in the battle against despondency remains the promises in God’s Word. I’ve discovered that memorizing selected verses keeps me from giving up and yielding to the despair. God’s promises fuel the faith that’s needed to counter my feelings of hopelessness.

In Future Grace, John Piper emphasizes,

“Wherever despondency comes from, Satan paints it with a lie. The lie says, ‘You will never be happy again. You will never be strong again. You will never have vigor and determination again. Your life will never again be purposeful. There is no morning after this night. No joy after weeping. All is gathering gloom, darker and darker.’”

When I’m bombarded with Satan’s lies, I buttress my faith with verses such as Psalm 30:5, that combat Satan’s lies: “Weeping may remain for a night, but rejoicing comes in the morning.” Another buoyant promise that keeps me from drowning in discouragement is Nahum 1:7: “The LORD is good, a refuge in times of trouble. He cares for those who trust in him.”

One effect of depression on my work is my inability to sense God’s presence as I prepare for and teach classes. That’s when I choose to lock my mental lens on Isaiah 41:10 which says, “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”

I tell myself that God’s Word, which promises His presence, is far more reliable than my fickle feelings. The outcome is that I work with renewed confidence and vigor.

Gather Round

In addition to clinging to God’s promises, I desperately need the love and support of my friends and family. During one particularly rough week, my wife and closest friends thought I might be suicidal. A friend took me to breakfast and assured me of his love. Another showed up at my house the same day. “I’m sitting by your side for the next couple of hours,” he announced. “I didn’t come with advice, but I’m here in case you want to talk or pray. Even if you just read the paper or watch TV, I’m not leaving your side.”

Their actions affirmed and encouraged me. I was on the receiving end of two of the Apostle Paul’s relational commands to believers:

“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ” (Galatians 6:2).

“Encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing” (1 Thessalonians 5:11).

I thank God for the two friends who pulled alongside me that day and gave me a jump start.

No one can help me bear the burden of depression, however, unless I’m willing to be transparent and admit my need. On my most downhearted days, I call close friends and ask them to pray with me over the phone. Once I drove to a friend’s house and knocked on the door. When his wife answered, I pleaded through tears, “Can I borrow David for a while?”

Anyone who is depressed needs the safe harbor of a friend or a small group where he can drop anchor and receive emotional support. The help of a Christian counselor may also be needed.

A Softened Heart

Though emotional pain is not the direct result of sin on my part, depression pays dividends in my war against sin. It softens my heart and makes me open to the Holy Spirit’s work in my life. When I’m victimized by a flagging spirit, I’m in a more dependent state. I pray more — and when I’m in the presence of God more often, the Holy Spirit takes advantage of my brokenness to beam a light on areas of impurity. He can expose sin more readily because there’s less pride hindering the process.

For several weeks, I supplemented my prayers with meditation on Psalm 139:23–24. Along with pleas for help with melancholy, I started asking the Lord to search my heart. Before long, the tears I shed were a result of conviction, spawned by sensitivity to sin instead of depression. I became increasingly conscious of a tendency to stretch the truth, of lustful thoughts that I’d rationalized as being inevitable for men, and of attitudes that kept me from greater intimacy with people close to me. Repentance wouldn’t have occurred if my heart had not first been crushed by depression.

Pointing to God

Depression not only softens my heart, but I’ve discovered that it provides an opportunity for God to receive more glory through my life and ministry. We may think a person best glorifies God through devoted service or a demonstration of uncompromising character. No doubt we honor Him in those ways. But I’m convinced that God gets more glory when we’re needy, when we’re in a situation requiring His intervention.

The idea that God gets more glory through our weakness than through our strength is couched in Psalm 50:15: “Call upon me in the day of trouble; I will deliver you, and you will honor me.”

Realizing that my need provides an opportunity for God to be magnified motivates me to pray when I’m depressed. I believe He will hear my plea because my situation offers an occasion for Him to act. It’s the Giver, not the recipient, who gets the glory. I feel confident that God will use me in ministry despite my despondency, since it gives Him a chance to do what only He can do.

Charles Spurgeon is a prime example of a person who honored God despite debilitating weakness. His first bout with depression occurred when he was 24. “My spirits were sunken so low that I could weep like a child, yet I knew not what I wept for,” reported the eloquent British preacher. The melancholy returned repeatedly throughout his life. Despite bouts with despondency, Spurgeon made a huge impact on his generation as a preacher and an author. He understood that human need magnifies the sufficiency of God. Spurgeon wrote, “We shall bring our Lord most glory if we get from Him much grace.”

Spurgeon’s remark resonates with me, because I’m a man who is receiving much grace from God. If my life glorifies Him as a result, then even my depression serves a redemptive purpose.

Though bouts of depression persist, I see the light in the promises of Scripture, in the faces of supportive friends, in the purifying work of God’s Spirit, and in the realization that my plight provides a prime opportunity for God to receive glory. Thanks to these means of sustenance and perspective, Micah 7:8 rings true in my life: “Though I sit in darkness, the LORD will be my light.”

9927349TERRY POWELL is on the faculty of Columbia International University in Columbia, South Carolina, and author of Serve Strong: Biblical Encouragement To Sustain God’s Servants. You can find Terry at Reprinted from Discipleship Journal, July/August 2004. Used with permission.

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  1. God indeed uses us. Thank you Terry, your life gave meaning to mine this morning. Your account of your depression and walk with Our Lord lifted me this morning. You spoke words that I have in my heart, but not able to articulate. I spent my early morning crying because of the hopelessness and despair I felt. I do not suffer from depression as a rule, but I have suffered from muscular skeletal physical pain for about 20 years, which leads to stress, depression, shame, etc. It is a terrible cycle!

    I have learned how to maintain and lessen the pain with God’s Word, physical therapy, and with the support of my wonderful husband and family. But it still takes a toll. There are periods (months/years) in my life that I am filled with despair, shame, and disbelief that God cares (though I never lose my faith in who He is). I am aware of his promises, but I hesitate in my belief in them.

    Today you made me aware that I was being controlled by my emotions. It was a subtle but effective attack from the enemy. Thank you for exposing it.

    One day we will meet in our true and eternal life with Christ. Till then…

    May He give you and our fellow sufferers a respte for the day. In Christ, Carmel

  2. Thank you for courage in stating the problem. I deal with it, too. I have learned that if I start to sing and dance, I can bring the light into my soul. I just wrote a post called Climbing Out of the Darkness that you might like. Regina

  3. Thank you for such an uplifting post. You’ve encouraged me and your words have brought me much needed comfort. I have been dealing with depression on and off for most of my adult life. Although I was not diagnosed at the time I am fairly certain my days of despair began just after a traumatic injury I incurred at 19. It was 1979 and PTSD were just 4 letters of the alphabet. I don’t think it was ever discussed whether or not I should talk about how much my life would be different due to the accident so after 63 days in a hospital bed I was sent home to face 7 months in a body cast. Although I knew about God I didn’t “know” Him, but my reverent fear of Him kept me from the questioning why He allowed any of this to happen to me. I spent the next 2 decades searching for joy and fighting off the hopelessness.

    I finally found Peace and although the road has still been slightly rocky I am eternally grateful for the Love He freely offers. Many of the verses you’ve shared have been etched upon my heart for years. Psalm 42:5 is a favorite along with:

    Lamentations: 17-26

    “My soul is bereft of peace; I have forgotten what happiness is; so I say, “My endurance has perished; so has my hope from the Lord.”
    Remember my affliction and my wanderings, the wormwood and the gall! My soul continually remembers it and is bowed down within me. But this I call to mind, and therefore I have hope:

    The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. “The Lord is my portion,” says my soul, “therefore I will hope in him.”
    The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul who seeks him. It is good that one should wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord.”

    I so love these verses! God has blessed me beyond anything I could ever imagine. Life has been and still is very hard and there are days when I don’t know how I will ever find the strength to get to the other side of the valley. Ah! But this I call to mind as Jeremiah did.

    The Lord is my portion, therefore I will hope in him!!

    I read the other day, “Great faith is forged in the deepest valleys where our strength and power end”.

    It’s only when I let go of “me, myself and I” and surrender ALL to Him that I will find myself on the right path; the path where joy blossoms continuously and peace flows endlessly. Thanks be to God who gives us the victory through our Lord, Jesus Christ!!!

    Thank you for using the beautiful gift God has blessed you with. Expressing the love of the Lord by way of the written word is a tremendous treasure. Share it forever!


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