Longing for light in the darkness.

Depression Practical Tools

Longing for light in the darkness. 

Depression isn’t a surprise to God and doesn’t disqualify us from making an impact for the Kingdom. Hold onto hope. God is here.

…although I dwell in darkness, the LORD is my light. (Micah 7:8 MEV)

HOW TO SEEK LIGHT IN THE MIDST OF DEPRESSION

 

Who do we trust?

What if depression is what draws us into closer relationship with God and greater dependence on Him? And what if depression helps us cultivate a deep and abiding trust God?

Is it possible that God is drawing us to Himself through our depression?

While there are no easy answers to these questions, Chronic Joy’s practical, easy-to-use, faith-based resources are a life-giving first step. May they encourage you as you continue your journey. There is hope. There is always hope.

 

DEPRESSION PRACTICAL TOOLS • FREE PRINTABLES

Depression Action Steps

Depression can make it difficult to practice and implement healthy self-care. Building an Action Plan gives you quick concrete steps each day.

Build An Ebenezer

Build An Ebenezer

Remembering God's Faithfulness

God’s people built Ebenezers, touchstones of help, to anchor them in truth in the midst of frightening, painful, difficult, or challenging circumstances.

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Depression Action Steps

Depression can make it difficult to practice and implement healthy self-care. Building an Action Plan gives you quick concrete steps each day.

DEPRESSION PRACTICAL TOOLS: 3 THINGS TO REMEMBER 

 

1.  FAITH IS NOT A FEELING

Depression often makes us question whether or not God is faithful. Yet even when we cannot feel His Presence, even when we doubt His love, or question His faithfulness, God remains steadfast and true.

“But even if we are faithless, he will still be full of faith, for he never wavers in his faithfulness to us!” (2 Timothy 2:13 TPT)

 

2. REMIND YOURSELF OF WHAT IS TRUE

Depression can make it difficult to think straight. Reminding ourselves of what is real and what is true gives us solid ground to stand on.

“So keep your thoughts continually fixed on all that is authentic and real, honorable and admirable, beautiful and respectful, pure and holy, merciful and kind. And fasten your thoughts on every glorious work of God, praising him always.” (Philippians 4:8 TPT)

 

3.  SPEND TEN MINUTES A DAY IN NATURE

There are so many benefits of stepping out into creation:

  • Decreased cortisol levels
  • Increased self-esteem
  • Decreased depression
  • Increased serotonin levels
  • Decreased stress
  • Increased mental focus
  • Increased desire to interact with others

“But ask the beasts, and they will teach you; the birds of the heavens, and they will tell you; or the bushes of the earth, and they will teach you; and the fish of the sea will declare to you. Who among all these does not know that the hand of the Lord has done this? In his hand is the life of every living thing and the breath of all mankind. (Job 12:7-10 ESV)

 

DEPRESSION PRACTICAL TOOLS: 6 WAYS TO HELP A FRIEND

 

1.  LISTEN WITHOUT OFFERING ADVICE

“There is a time to be silent and a time to speak.” (Ecclesiastes 3:7b NCB)
 

2.  OFFER YOUR HELP IN SPECIFIC WAYS

Such as: “I’m at the grocery store. Is there anything I can pick up for you?” or “I know things are overwhelming right now, what can I take off your to-do list?”

“… serve one another humbly in love.” (Galatians 5:13)
 

3. RESEARCH CARE AND SUPPORT OPTIONS

Help your friend create a list of mental health providers, support groups, books, websites, and podcasts. Offer to help your loved one navigate insurance, fill out medical forms, and schedule appointments.

 “Carry each others burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2)

 

4.  KEEP INVITING YOUR FRIENDS AND LOVED ONES

Remind them that it’s OK if they have to cancel at the last minute. Tell them that you care and that you’re not going anywhere.

“Therefore, my beloved brothers and sisters, be firm, immovable, always excelling in the work of the Lord, knowing that your labor is not in vain in the Lord.” (1 Corinthians 15:58 NASB)

 

5. CREATE A LIST OF EMERGENCY CONTACTS

Create a list of crisis hotlines, emergency response services, and friends or loved ones who will answer a call day or night. Hang it in a prominent and visually-accessible place — and make a copy for yourself.

“When you go through deep waters, I will be with you. When you go through rivers of difficulty, you will not drown. When you walk through the fire of oppression, you will not be burned up; the flames will not consume you.” (Isaiah 43:2)

 

6.  ENCOURAGE YOUR FRIEND OF LOVED ONE

Send an “I’m thinking of you!” email. Call or text every few days. Remind them in many ways of how much they matter and how much you care.

“The eternal God is your refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms.” (Deuteronomy 33:27)

 

THE MOST IMPORTANT THINGS TO REMEMBER

 

You matter.

 

God is here, present in every moment, every heartbeat, and every breath. He always graciously gives us enough light for the very next step.

We long for light in the darkness — and the Light of the world is here, Immanuel, “God with us.”

Joy is here too, tucked into every difficult, numb, overwhelming, and aching moment of darkness, just waiting to be discovered.

Lastly, Sarah Robinson writes, “[God] isn’t afraid of my depression. He doesn’t shrink from the darkness. God doesn’t lose patience with my pain.” 

TAKE CARE OF YOU

It can be difficult to see the light when our days seem filled with darkness. Sometimes it means taking small steps and choosing to believe that light exists even when we cannot see it. While self-care may not seem important to us, it is important to God. We are important to God.

GOD’S FAITHFULNESS

God is in this hard, lonely place with us. Remembering His faithfulness and prayerfully looking back, asking Him to show us where His care and provision brought His hope or made a way, can sustain us when our hope is running thin.

PRACTICAL TOOLS • ADDITONAL RESOURCES

Discover meaningful ways to express the darkness and despondency that are hiding the light you long to see and feel. Often when we write our story in creative ways it can provide insights and hope that we may have otherwise missed.

In the Midst of Grief • Navigating loss, suffering, and chronic sorrow.

In the Midst of Grief

Mourning Our Losses
Grief is no stranger to those of us affected by chronic illness, pain, and suffering. While there are no rules for grieving chronic loss, there is a road map and there are fellow travelers ahead and behind us on the journey. Grief often precedes growth.

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Lament - Crying out to God in prayer

Lament

Pushing our pain aside, hiding it, or feeling shame because of it diminishes our human experience. If Jesus wept and cried out in anguish, why do we feel it is somehow faithless to honestly express lament?

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Allegory • Explore the difficult, painful, or vulnerable parts of your story from a safer distance and a different perspective.

Allegory

Allegory is a beautiful, artistic form of storytelling. Explore the difficult, painful, or vulnerable parts of your story from a safer distance and a different perspective.

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Prayer for Depression

Prayer Pond • Your Safe Harbor for Prayer.

Living with depression is hard. Often finding and/or being a part of a community when depression is a constant companion can be even more challenging.

You’re invited to the Prayer Pond, your safe harbor, where you can share your prayer requests, updates, and shouts of praise. Whether a request, praise, lament, suffering, loss, hope, grief, or joy, each prayer ripples far beyond this day and the boundaries of our world.
 
How often we hear, “Prayer is the least I can do,” when in reality, prayer is the most we can do. 

A PRAYER WHEN DEPRESSED

Dear Loving Father,

Right now, despair envelops me. Hopelessness makes me think I’ll never smile or be happy again. It’s as if there is a high humidity in my heart that leaves me gasping for breath, sapping my energy, draining me of motivation for things I normally enjoy. I’m stumbling in the dark, afraid I’ll fall, without anything to light my path. I’d have to stand on tiptoe and reach way up just to touch bottom —

…. but I still believe in You, Father, or else I wouldn’t voice these feelings to You.

Penetrate my darkness with Your light. Eclipse my weakness with Your strength. Replace my pessimism with joy and with a deeper trust in You that generates hope for the future. Keep reminding me of who You are, what You have done for me in the past, and what You have promised for my future —

… and somehow, please redeem this pain.

Use it to wean me of self-sufficiency so I serve You in a way that can only be explained by the words, “God did it!” Let others see Your power working in, for, and through me so You, rather than I, get the credit for anything I might accomplish.

Father, I have nowhere to look but up — show me why that is a great place to be. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Why, my soul, are you downcast?

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